As many chances as you tend to give a person, it is quite clear that you’re being hopeful of the inevitable. Change is constant and nothing can turn that around. But basic and primary habits or thought processes of an individual will always be a part of his/her personality. There’s nothing you can do to change that.
People don’t change. They might alter their patterns to suit you but complete change in a person is impossible and only fools oneself into believing that it’s the only way to survive.

In all honesty, how do you expect someone to completely turn around their life experiences that moulded them in a certain way to miraculously just change for your good? Would you really do the same?
A 360 degree turn for another is a trial that is sure to expire. It’s unhealthy and delays the lessons you need to learn or go through in life.
So the next time someone promises you that they’re going to change and become exactly what you want or you find yourself expecting a fish to climb a mountain, realize that either they are buying more time with no concrete assurance or you’re doing whatever you can to be utterly hopeful.

Change is inevitable, yes. But this change is a part of your evolution and growth. It shapes the person you’re ought to become in the long run. It is a healthy journey.
So it’s better to grow in life and not significantly change to suit another because firstly, it is impossible and even if it happens, don’t be fooled into the trial period that sooner or later reaches an outburst. And secondly, you’re selling away your precious time.
People don’t change. They just buy time. Let alignments do its wonders!

Brilliant! I’m so impressed
LikeLike
Really excellent. I always say you have it in you.
LikeLike