It’s 2021 and women are far more empowered now as compared to a few decades ago. Women have not only made their place in society but have also managed to become successful and empowering leaders for generations to come. Although there’s still a lot more to achieve, we are marching towards a society of independent women who have learnt to free themselves from the web of norms and expectations that are usually not self-created.
This Women’s Day, let’s take advantage of the empowerment that we’re surrounded with. To recognize the importance of it, we need to understand that we’re just a few steps away from being successful in life and to achieve this, we need to channelize our empowerment.
Here are a few steps to be successful in life :
- Learn to wait for your big picture.
Very often you tend to get impatient to achieve your goals. In that, you might even give up several times if you don’t see any outcome. Always remember that not every little thing you do requires a successful outcome. Sometimes, you need to build a whole lot, consistently, in order to achieve a really successful output. Learn to appreciate the process of your journey!
2. Start creating better goals.
The goals we create might be based on certain thought processes. Don’t be rigid in going all out. Seek more, think more, find out more and discuss more. Open your mind to the possibility of new ideas and better implementations. Once you broaden your mindset, you create room for better goals that could bring you success and lasting consequences.
3. Build your expertise.
If you are good at something, don’t just stop there. Channelize it in some way or the other and be consistent about it. Build a whole strategy to enhance your expertise and follow it. Take extra classes, read more, study more, plan more and work on implementation along with your forte.
4. Build a healthy mindset
You should not only be mentally strong to be successful in life but also have a growth mindset. If you have such a mindset, you can change, grow, evolve and learn through your efforts. People who believe that they are capable of growth are actually the ones who make a difference. They believe in their efforts and learn new skills to improve themselves, instead of remaining stuck. They look at failures as a redirection or a good learning experience for something better to come their way. In this, lies strength and complete control over your life.
5. Give importance to your EI
Emotional Intelligence or EI is one factor that requires utmost attention. It refers to the ability to understand, utilize and reason with emotions. It is important to identify what you’re feeling and address them accordingly. When in doubt, always take a step back and review things with an impartial eye. Those who are emotionally intelligent are aware of their emotions and understand them better. They also tend to understand the emotions of those around them. Keeping this in mind, you can understand where you stand and where to direct your goals in order to be successful.
6. Stop entertaining roadblocks.
When you have a bad day, take some time off and don’t waste time in dwelling on it any further. These roadblocks are only in your head. It is normal for recurring thoughts or fears to exist but don’t let them rule your life and hamper your productivity.
7. Refrain from constantly seeking validation and appreciation.
When you do anything in life, always ask yourself if it makes you happy and proud. Stop trying to make others the judge of that. If you really can’t decide for yourself then how do you expect another human to do the same for you? Learn to appreciate the little accomplishments that you have made in life and don’t place your worth in someone else’s hands. If you do get appreciated, cherish it as an added bonus to your journey.
8. Be financially independent, come what may!
Always be aware and well-updated about your finances. In case you’re not sure about how to invest or where to invest, educate yourself on this topic instead of being dependent on anyone for it. It is important to be financially literate instead of placing your hard earned money in the hands of others.
9. Live your own journey, even if it means doing it alone!
Steer clear from competitiveness. Stop trying to compete with others who have entirely different backgrounds, journeys and life experiences. Respect them and respect yourself enough to not mark yourself on the same lines as another in order to be successful. Your competition should always be with your own self. “Have I performed better than the previous year?”, “I didn’t take that well the last time but now I’m learning”. If you have such thoughts, you will not only work on yourself but also better your chances of being successful in life.
10. Be comfortable with uncertainty and not fearful of what’s yet to come.
To be successful, you have to embrace whatever life throws at you! You cannot shy away and take the easy road. Standing strong in your position and beliefs is a powerful virtue. Life is never certain but being constantly fearful will not get you any success. You cannot always be cautious of what’s yet to come. You have to be able to adapt and step up your game each time there’s a change in the plot.
Always live your own journey instead of constantly worrying about another’s success. While doing so, you might often find yourself to be alone but you never know, that might just be your last step to achieving the success you’ve always wanted!
You’ve got to do what you’ve got to do!
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